Aug 19, 2022

Increasing Power Thru Family Ties


"The family is a link to our past, and a bridge to our future.” – Alex Haley



I was born in Provo, Utah in December of 1976.  

My given name was Kent Burton, named after my father, Kent.


My parents were both young, newly married, and attending Brigham Young University in Provo Utah.  They were far from the home they grew up in, and from parents and family, most of whom still lived in Louisiana.


They never completed their college education, and I learned later in life that both struggled with severe depression.  Both contemplated suicide when I was a toddler, and my dad confessed in later years to nearly pulling it off with a loaded gun to his head up in the mountains.  


I’ll admit that I grew up in fear of my dad, and our relationship was often strained, if not explosive.  He believed in being firm, since he felt his dad, McKay Burton, was too soft. 


And although they were extremely devout in their LDS faith, my grandparents, McKay and Rene Burton and their 7 children and grandchildren have on the whole struggled with great tragedies in life, as their children or grandchildren have had numerous incidents of divorce, abuse, poverty, and crime.  My dad and us children were one of the exceptions, comparatively, in many respects, or so it may seem.. 


McKay and Rene Burton’s ancestors both have deep roots that trace back to the early members of the Church, including direct ties to Anson Call and Joseph Fielding.  Many of these early LDS church pioneers were beaten, tortured, raped and in some instances killed; almost all of the early pioneers had their property stolen from them, on account of mob violence and persecution against the early Church.  


My mom’s parents, Moses, who was Lebanese, and Barbara who was mostly Scottish, were much more firm and disciplined with their children.  Each of their 6 children have had relative success and happiness in their lives.


Many of Moses’ ancestors, the Attayas and the Salibees, fled from Lebanon due to Muslim persecution and hostility against them due to their Christian faith. 



McKay Burton
May 21, 1924 ~ May 24, 2021 (age 97)

Moses Attaya
NOVEMBER 7, 1922 – JUNE 4, 2019 (age 96)



Both of my grandfathers were named after prophets. McKay being named after latter-day prophet David O. McKay, a close friend of the family when he was young, and Moses being named after the ancient prophet who helped deliver Israel from slavery in Egypt.


They both fought in World War II as pilots and suffered through the great depression in their youth. Both were very strong in their Christian faith, and believed in and fought for the freedoms it would seem we Americans take for granted today. I believe their generation was and is the greatest generation our country has ever seen.


On both sides of my family, my LDS-Christian father’s side, and my Methodist-Christian mother’s side, fleeing cruel and unfair opposition (even opposition sponsored by the government) is in our roots.


And so, my opinion of the government and its overbearing role in people’s lives - especially when imposing itself unfairly upon individual rights, or freedoms of worship or speech or commerce, isn’t very favorable. 


For many more reasons which I’ll elaborate on in more detail later on, besides just my own upbringing and family history, I’m a Christian and a conservative libertarian.


This conservative libertarianism value system for me is defined as one who believes in the advocacy of economic and legal principles such as fiscal discipline, respect for contracts, defense of private property and free markets; fewer laws banning minor crimes, and the traditional conservative stress on self-help and freedom of choice under a laissez-faire and economically liberal capitalist society with social tenets such as the importance of religion and the value of religious morality through a framework of limited, constitutional, representative government.


Always remember that there is great strength in knowing our ancestors and great power in honoring the legacy of our forefathers.


Aug 18, 2022

Keep Fighting

"Most of the important things in the world have been accomplished by people who have kept on trying when there seemed to be no hope at all." - Dale Carnegie


I’ve been beaten, broke, and bankrupt.

As a teenager, I ran away from home and for a while I lived out of my car, and ate out of trash cans.


I was raised in fear, living in an abusive home with a dad that would beat, choke and threaten me.


I’ve been diagnosed as manic with severe depression, and told by the professionals that I would be on lithium and other hard-core medication’s for the rest of my life.


I dropped out of high school for a year before graduating in the bottom 3% of my class with mostly D’s.

I’ve lost a best friend to suicide.


I dated 823 girls over a near 10-year period in an attempt to find the one I was to marry and raise a family with, having my heart broken dozens of times in the process. 

 

I’ve been down to my last $3.87 just days before Christmas with a wife and a baby girl and no presents to give under the tree.


I’ve lost millions of dollars in bad investments involving frauds and crooks.


And I’ve made it back again.


Fast forward to today. 


I graduated from Brigham Young University with a degree in Business and Management Information Systems shortly after completing a 2-year mission sharing my testimony of  the gospel to the good people in New Jersey.


I have a supportive and loving wife and four amazing children, ages 7-12.


Although I still have hard days and feel at times weighed down, I’m not on any antidepressants. 


I’ve also obtained some measure of wealth.


My point in sharing this is that it doesn’t matter where you come from, or what you’ve done, or how many times you’ve failed.  


There’s always hope.


The sun really does come out tomorrow if we move forward in faith.


Keep Fighting.